Always stays away from family

Rama Rao

Since past 11 years of my marriage, my husband always stays away from family due to his kind of work.

He is a project manager and will be deputed by the company wherever the work is going on under his jurisdiction.

Pls. help advise any SW/mantra which will help in getting his job settled here in Bangalore and he can be with us in Bangalore instead of staying with us only on Sundays and holidays.

Thank you for your great support to mankind.

Naran S Balakumar

Chant “GREEN SYLVAN Home NOW DIVINE”

Lied about Green Card Application

DP

My husband applied for a Green card long back. When I asked about the status, he told me that he has cancelled it as he is interested in going back to India and look after his parents.

He asked me before applying for the Green Card, whereas now he has cancelled it without intimating me. This is really worrying me much.

Whenever I ask about this, he diverts the topic. I am not sure whether he is lying or what made him to change his mind to cancel without intimating me…really confusing for me…

I have an aim to settle well in future both in career and financially. Please help me to make him to share everything with me and help me in getting the green card.

Naran

Chant “CHICORY, HOLLY, MIMULUS”

My in-laws are very dangerous people

Vidhya Durga Balaji

From the Feb. of 2011 we are married. Our marriage is love cum arranged.

My husband’s behavior towards me changed suddenly without any cause. I am suffering from so many problems created by my in-laws.

My sister-in-law and father-in-law is main culprit for all these. They want me to cut all my ties with my mother and my mother must give all her belongings to my husband.

They are very good actors. They do all these things with me in absence of my husband. And when I inform my husband about all this, they behave like innocent and my husband don't believe me also.

I am staying with my mother for last three months. My mother brought me after having a tough fight with my in-laws.

When I contacted with my husband to come and take me back or become separate with his parents and begin our own family, then he is saying me to return to home alone and when I turn down his conditions, he stops talking with me.

Now, I came to know that his parents and sister are abusing me and my family in society and also want to break my marriage.

I am also afraid of returning home and staying with his parents and sister can harm me any way, either physically or socially.

His sister is married and has a 5 years old daughter and her husband is under her control. They are very dangerous people and the most important thing is that they do all the things in absence of my husband.

Pleases help me with some mantra, which I can recite at home easily as I have one kid, 8 months old and please help me to bring my husband back in my life and lead a happily married life with my husband but without my in-laws.

I suspect that they have done some jadoo – tona over my husband as his behavior towards me suddenly changed. I have got the information that they had met with tantric so that my husband never go against them.

Naran

Chant “WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, HORNBEAM, CHANGE DIVINE ORDER” daily 500 times.

Spending less time and money on me

Mohana

I and my life partner are both working people. We are not in a joint family. I came out due to some problems.

The problem now is he is spending more time to earning money and helping his family members physically and financially and spending less time and money to me. Not worried much about me either.

I want him to be a total caretaker both physically and financially, spend much time to me (going out to relations house, temple and other entertainment activities etc) and spend more time to me like his family members.

My in-laws always keep him in their hands and allowing him to spend less time to me. I am spending more time in office and in return I feel lonely till his return.

If child is there it will not be a problem for me. It is also getting delayed. Not taking his own decision either but only his parents’ decision.

I want him to take care of me and take decisions for our welfare.

Naran

Chant “GORSE MIMULUS” 100 times over a glass of water and give that water to him.

Mohana

Thanks for your prompt response. I want speak truth to you.

Problems rose in money matters. He is taking food, coffee, even water in his mother’s house. We are just one km away from in laws house.

He is sharing little amount in rent only. Not even paying a single paisa for my livelihood. We are just living like room friends.

I am afraid about my family life. Official life is settled for me. But I am very much afraid about my family life.

They need him even for taking drinking water which is coming once in a week. Always needing him and willingly separating us.

I have one brother in law who is in other state living a luxurious and pleasant life. But here I am living like a hermit sacrificing all my happiness in the age of 32.

Got married in 26.but till date we have not even gone out anywhere. For everything they need him even in Sundays.

I am praying to Lord Shiva and keeping fast in Monday and Muruga, but no improvement in him. I am afraid that if this continues my family life will be a question mark.

Naran

Why don't you chant what I said and come back after a week?

When I want you to chant some words you have to do it.

You have mentioned the same problem in different sentences. If I give you something else for chanting will you be satisfied and do it?

Before desiring to change the other person, is it not necessary to change yourself also.

Expecting a change in the other person without ourselves changing even 1% will produce nothing. You will be in the same situation where you are now.

To make one perfect, whole and complete the destiny brings a person exactly opposite to our personality.

We have to understand that, and win over our own unwanted traits.

Till you understand the situation in proper higher perspective sufferings will continue. It is your mental outlook which brings in the suffering of the mind.

What is your goal now? Your husband should behave in a particular manner. Write a list under two headings.

What should I do to achieve this?

What should I not do to achieve this goal?

If you think that this goal can be achieved through your own self-pity, or fear or blaming do it.

Find out what emotions you need and what behavior you need to change your husband.

Come out with this exercise and I suggest something else.

You are indebted to him. How are you going to repay that? By blaming or by thanking? By accusing or by forgiving.

FORGIVE LOVE THANK is the mantra for you. Then only you are TOGETHER BE DIVINE WITH your husband.

Waiting for love shared before

Client

You had given me HARMONY remedy pills. Yes, looks like it has worked. I have changed myself. I am not that arrogant that I was before to my husband, though he is not helping me as of now.

I do not know the reason. At least now there is no fight inside the house. My son is also becoming very cooperative and obedient to my words.

One last thing I am waiting is my husband’s love and affection that he had shared with me 5 yrs before.

He always used to be with me everywhere in the house helping me out to do things, share the responsibilities of the baby and all other things. Hope, that day will be back.

Anyway, no words to thank you – our practical divine in reality for helping us lead a matured, loving and a happy life.

Naran

Chant “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE LOVE THANKS TOGETHER DIVINE”.

He is a mental disorder person

Malar

My husband is one kind of mental disorder person.

He is suffering from inferiority complex. He simply comments badly for no reason. He can't resist a good-natured well-behaved person, which includes me too.

He is quite aged; we have a difference in age, and not so good looking also. He finds fault with me for no reason.

He has a doubting nature on me and my personality and doubts on sex also. I am fed up with him.

Naran 

Listen to HARMONY CD (set)

Becoming more distant

Mariana

I am in a relationship for ten years. We have a beautiful son together and a son from his previous relationship.

From last year, he has become more and more distant.

He has made it clear that he feels very disappointed and he sees no future in our relationship. His heart and mind are blocked.

I truly love this family, this man, and I trusted and trust him dearly.

We promised to be together forever under all circumstances, but now he wants to leave. I am truly heartbroken. However, I feel there's still hope.

Naran

Chant “MUSTARD, STAR OF BETHLEHEM, SLOW CARE”.

Download a picture of the Gem Stone TREE AGATE and paste it on the paper written with both of your names.

My husband is not listening to me

Vanishree

My husband is not listening to me and only listening to my mother-in-law.  If I say something he gets angry. 

Is there anything that as a wife I can do to keep my husband under my control and bring happiness in my married life?

I am married for 10 yrs and there is no improvement in my relationship with my husband except for fights and arguments.

I don’t want to harm my mother-in-law, but I want my husband to listen to me also. I am also treated like a door mat and no respect whatsoever.

What should I do to avoid fights in my house and to keep my husband under my control?

Naran

Take the flower remedies HOLLY, WALNUT, AGRIMONY, HEATHER, and MIMULUS each 2 pills, one after the other, for two times in a day.

Chant “WALNUT, FIND DIVINE LOVE WITH”

Does not takes care of our requirements

Married Life, Products

Vidya 

My husband don’t respect me, often criticise and blames me for everything and does not takes care of me and my kid’s requirements.

If at all he gives us something, he keeps on telling us that he has given us this and that nobody can give us that and so on.

Naran

You can get harmony pills from the centre and put 5 pills daily in common drinking water.

Expects responsibilities irrespective of health issues

Roopa 

Lately, I have realized a friend of mine keeps criticizing her husband, when he dominates on her, or ill-treats her, tortures her by expecting lot from her.

She has no freedom for a change to move out of the kitchen once in a week, when she is tired/during her periods.

Husband expects the responsibilities from her to be completed irrespective of her health issues, mood issues as she is reaching her menopause time.

For such an issue, what kind of triangle healing can be done? Who should be healed on what 

behavior?

Naran

Give her BLUE SAPPHIRE, HOLLY, VINE and ROCK WATER pills.

Misunderstanding between husband and wife

Sharada

Is there is any mantra to chant to clear misunderstanding between husband and wife, and create harmony between them?

Likewise, any mantra is there to be chanted to make my husband desire to become a father? Is there any mantra to conceive for a wife?

Naran

Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE” continuously.

Feeling unhappy and lonely

Vijay

I am also in great trouble of relationship problems and money problems.

Not happy at all and feel lonely and depressed. No interest at all. I am married and cannot have good romance or good life.

Naran

Chant “SCLERANTHUS, CHICORY, ROCK ROSE, GENTIAN, WILD ROSE” 1000 times

We are losing our connection

Mariana

First thank you truly for all the amazing work you do helping and supporting those in the shadowy paths of change and acceptance.

I was reading all the comments, articles and more in your site, looking for a palliative or a reference to something positive that could help me further in my situation in all aspects, as it’s all me.

The first time I wrote to you, you gave me “MUSTARD STAR OF BETHLEM SLOW CARE”, 

which I been chanting almost daily for two month. I notice the effect but it is not stable.

I also wrote our names in a paper and put a Tree Agate in it, keep it in my altar, where I chant every morning.

Then later I ask you how to balance the negative energy in my life and you gave me “BEECH WILLOW PINE” to sing.

I love my husband truly. I love my children (his and ours), I love his family although they have made things sometimes really difficult.

He had a very tough life and he’s a bit younger than me. His heart is beautiful and so is mine, but I feel we are losing our connection, slipping away from each other.

I miss the intimacy and the kindness there was between us. I am very sad every day thinking that I can’t find a job, can't keep up with sporting and I drive him further him away like this.

You talk a lot about accepting the divine plan. I guess that’s what’s next in my situation.

I don't want to change my husband, I want to change myself to show the best out of me, the cheerful and positive person I used to be before the idea that this relationship could end became a real threat.

I want to find a job/project that delivers the money that we need to have a more peaceful life together, I want to rebuild our plans together, get married (we've been engaged for 8 years, have a child, but never put this on paper).

But can this divine plan cause so much pain? What am I to do to change for the better and the joy of everyone?

 Want this relationship to exist based in personal freedom and true love not obligations and force.

Can you tell me what to do to help us all?

Also to help our respective families to release past karmas that keeps this people from breaking away from each other – union, love, family, joy, abundance and happiness to all.

Thank you for your words is full of love and light and connects us all to a source of positive growths. Be all the divine light be with you.

Naran

WHAT should I do to be intimate and loving?

Do only that. You can change, but you cannot expect others to change.

Whether I receive love or not I have to give love

Giving love is to feel the happiness inside and not to expect anything in return.

In the name of love, we always want to possess; just love, give love and accept others as they are.

Chant “Link with divine love; Link with divine light; Link with divine sight; Link with divine bliss; Link with divine glory”.

Write daily thrice:

I thank the divine for what happened;

I thank the divine for what is happening;

I thank the divine for what is to happen

Dwell visually, for 5 minutes on what happened and what is happening; wherever necessary, say “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME.”

Best of divine grace for everything in life!

Never agree with each other

Usha

My brother and his wife always differ in their views. They never agree with each other. They are always fighting with the other one.

Naran

Get the HARMONY PACK from the center. 

Sexually abused as a child

ETH

I had been sexually abused when I was a child. Now I am married. This is causing harm to our bedroom relationship.

The person who abused me is now dead. Please guide me how to do healing so that I can get over this and have a good married relationship?

Thanking you loads for the great help and support.

Naran

Chant every day for 256 times, “I AM SORRY, PLEASE FORGIVE ME. I LOVE YOU. I THANK YOU”

Harassed for lack of dowry

Anju

My sister’s daughter has problem with her in-laws. She got married during Nov.2010.

For the last three months, she is in her parent's house. Her in-laws and husband does not take care of her neither they phone nor they give single penny to her.

She is pregnant too.

Actually, their in-laws demands were not met. So they are harassing her. They said they will not take her to their house nor they want to solve problem.

How to overcome the situation? She is in depression and thinks her future is in danger. Her father is also in shock.

Could I do something for her successful marriage life? Please advise.

Naran

Write the name of the person and her husband in a piece of paper.

Draw a circle around the name. Draw one more concentric circle. In the gap between the circles, write “SWEET CHESTNUT, MUSTARD, HOLLY, MIMULUS, TOGETHER CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”.

Ask her to chant these remedies. You can also do it for her.

In addition, ask her to chant the mantra “GURU GUGAN KODI KODI AVANYAM”.

Co-operation in all areas of life

Annapoorni

I am having a struggling relationship with my husband and in-laws, and have many misunderstandings between us.

Main reason is that my husband is having problem physically to give birth to a child, which was confirmed in a doctor report. He is not co-operating with me for anything (for treatment also).

After eight years of marriage, I am not happy with my married life. There is no second chance in marriage according to me.

I need remedy for:  he should co-operate with me in all areas of life and he should become healthy to live a happy married life.

Naran

Write “TOGETHER DIVINE” in a note book around 100 times.

Chant “NAMASHIVAYAM” as many times as possible.

Both of you take Bach flower remedies BEECH, WILLOW, AGRIMONY, CHERRY PLUM and WALNUT for 6 months.

Husband is falling for some lady in his office

Neelu

My husband is falling for some other lady. She is always with my husband in his office and also she is interfering in most of our family matters.

Because there is lot of disturbance between me and my husband he does not listen to me at all.

Please give me some suggestions and remedy .that he comes back to me and listen to me.

He ignores me a lot. Sometimes he says he will divorce me. I’m so worried and disturbed. We don't have a normal life.

Naran

Chant “CENTAURY RUBY CORAL WILLOW”

We fight every single day

Sue

My husband and I have been married for about two years and we fight every single day.

He won't spend time with me and chooses to go out with friends instead. Please help me before our relationship completely falls apart.

Naran

Chant “CHICORY, BEECH, WALNUT, WILD ROSE, WILLOW, CHERRY PLUM” 100 times over a glass of water (hold a glass of water and chant) and both of you take this water.

Write the above words in a paper and keep it under the pillow.

Very egoistic to express his feelings for me

Kabori Patil

I’m married for the past 14 years, having 2 beautiful daughters and we make a very handsome couple.

 

We also love each other a lot but he is very egoistic to express his feelings for me. He kind of dominates me.

Many a times he is very diplomatic with me. My in-laws also like me but they keep taunting me, insult me, and ridicule me when I'm alone.

They also compare me with my co-sister and make her feel nice as she is a close relative of theirs.

Most of the times I am lonely with my daughters and they enjoy family get-togethers on their own, as if I’m banished.

Actually, I'm very lonely, sad, crave for my husband’s closeness, in-laws love and family togetherness.

Naran 

Chant “HEATHER TOGETHER DIVINE”